Scalability. Cloud Run scales automatically and handles large volumes without effort. Stape performs well for small to mid-sized sites, but you'll hit a ceiling sooner.
Ease of use. Stape clearly wins here: a simple interface, little technical knowledge required. Cloud Run asks more of you and gives more control in return.
Customisation. On Cloud Run you can shape almost everything, which counts once you have specific requirements. Stape is straightforward and covers standard implementations well.
Cost. Cloud Run bills per use. With the recommended three instances at 512 MB you land around 50 to 60 euros a month at roughly 5 million requests. Stape starts at 20 euros for 500,000 requests a month, with a more predictable bill.
Security and compliance. Both are solid. Cloud Run has the edge, simply because Google puts more resources into meeting global standards.
Support. Cloud Run leans on Google Cloud's documentation and community, which is vast. Stape is smaller but offers focused help from people who do exactly this.